Am i too intimidating quiz
My advice: Keep smiling and being friendly, keep dressing well, don’t give up your ambition, and give your boyfriend a backhand upside the head for making as preposterous a statement as “because cute girls are scary.” Just…you know, slap him playfully and smile when you do it. JOE: I think that your situation is a good one to be in – as you said, those traits that could come across as intimidating are all positive ones. Instead, just realize that, if you want men to pursue you, you’ll need to wait for a bolder, more confident man to appear in your life, but you’ll need to realize that such a man will also likely be able to easily get his choice of women who are less ambitious/organized/etc. Such a man might be tempted to go for the easy score, especially at the college level. you could accept that such confidence for men often comes a bit later in life, along with more maturity, and that, for now, you might need to be the one who does the asking. Don’t do so much to gain the first that you sacrifice the second.— Intimi-dating ART: You are doing zero things wrong. I had no idea what that meant, but I think it had something to do with the fact that I was/am shy, that I can tend to furrow my brow when thinking which makes me look angry, and that I can come off as distant because of these things.In high school I was told I was intimidating (my senior year! Also, as you can see from my picture, I’m supermodel handsome.
I understand that to a certain extent, but am frustrated because I always try to smile and be friendly to people.
We got to know each other when I struck up a conversation with him in the elevator, and again when we bumped into each other on campus.
After we’d been dating for a couple weeks he confessed to me that he’d liked me for a long time but was nervous to talk to me, “because cute girls are scary” and “what if you were a bitch?
I really doubt anyone who knows me well would say I was a bitch or give anyone a reason to be afraid of me.
I feel that I am always having to make the first move with guys and I would like to feel as though I am being pursued, instead of the other way around for once.
Go out and grab your date by the balls and make him want you.