Dating for separated men
.” Getting involved with a separated man usually comes with a host of issues and complications that spell drama, stress and heartache to a woman.
Two important warning signs to watch for are self-justification and blaming.
The thing about anger is that it uses up a lot of energy and space in your separated man’s brain and heart.
That’s energy and space that he can’t and won’t channel into you in positive ways. He doesn’t consistently spend time with his children.
If you chose to proceed in dating him, I caution you to proceed slowly and with eyes wide open. Comments like, “Bah, I just want it over,” or “Doesn’t matter, we’ve been strangers for years,” may seem casual, even confident — but they also mask what’s going on underneath and behind the scenes.
When a man has truly processed his divorce and moved on, he should be able to speak to it with compassion, kindness, and wisdom.
I also hasten to add that not separated man is disastrous to date – and should be considered as a unique individual.