Dating frugal woman
There’s no bigger turn off for me than someone looking for a free ride (pardon the pun).Historically, the gentleman has been responsible for covering the expenses. I’m a huge fan of investing in myself, but I’m also frugal when it comes to courting. You can’t throw all of your goals out the window because your current partner has different views.
I personally appreciate it when the lady at least as the guy. If the female doesn’t offer to at least buy a round of drinks by the fifth date, then you might want to watch out, because she clearly is expecting you to pay for in the long run. These are all sensitive topics when it comes to first date conversations. Most of us don’t have six months into the future and a college fund for the kids. Some guys don’t mind spending their paychecks on dating. I like to pay for dates, but I’m not a sponsor who’s looking to buy gifts and be on the hook for every single expense. Money is the deciding factor in every decision that you make as a couple. I don’t want to spend every single penny on dates and spoiling my girlfriend. Check out this Love and Money episode of #Talking Taboo to hear more perspectives on money and dating…
I might as well come clean- I’ve done this online dating thing. While I’ve met some very cool people- not all of which lead to something long term, but some lead to friendships. Match.com, Chemistry.com, are all paid sites (even if they offer “free weekends”) and sites like Ok are free.