Dating married while
The little innocent doe in you (in most cases) braves itself up and walks curiously ahead. He’s a married man, and you know you don’t want to fall, but he’s such an emotional wreck, and the most striking part of it all is, he’s totally in love with you. Now, you warm up to him to shower him with happiness, and the next thing you know, you’re snogging him in hallways of movie theaters and bouncing off walls in your apartment, all in the purpose of making him a happier man! You’re dating a married man, and you want him all for yourself.
You’re flattered to know he loves you, no man who’s so sweet has ever told you something like that. [Read: Cheating in a relationship] And unknown to you, you’re preparing yourself for the inevitable. The wife and the other woman The worst part of all this is that you’d never really want to be in this place, but somehow, you find yourself here. All of a sudden, you’re not just another nice girl.
But the morality of each person is very different and personal. You can date married men and women provided you are clear about what you want from the relationship.
Although it is not strictly speaking fair, it can be considered justified for gay men and women to date while married.
There is no way he’s ready to do that, even if your closet love goes on for a few years. You wake up feeling cheated, used and totally and miserably helpless. But all this is just the tip of the iceberg of problems when you have a relationship with married men.